I spoke to Michelle at Compass one day. She said, "Nancy, did you know that we have a family meeting every last Wednesday of the month? This month, we are going to honor your mother with a lifetime achievement award."
Hmmm... Not quite sure what this is, but it sounds like fun. I think the best way to describe this would be to say that this award gives the staff a chance to introduce different residents to the families. We learn a little about each resident's past, since the residents themselves are often unable to describe their accomplishments.
The meeting started with general announcements, and we learned of the many adventures that the residents were having. This was such a nice time-- I know that my mother is very happy-- but she is unable to really tell me what she has been doing. Near the end of the meeting, Nana Pap was ushered into the meeting room.
Nana entered like the true star that she is. The staff had given her a makeover (Mom would be so happy to know that she was introduced while wearing lipstick-- heehee!) She had on some of her jewelry, and her nails were finely manicured. She beamed at everyone in the room, even winking at a few.
Michelle introduced Nana and described many of her accomplishments. At the end, she gave Nana a framed certificate. Nana graciously took her award.
"Thank you so much!," Nana exclaimed. "You know," she continued while looking around the room, "I couldn't be who I am without the help of every one of you." (Truth be told, she had seen only about 1/4 of the people in the room before in her life...)
She continued. "I just love people. I love ALL people!!"
She was quiet for a moment. "Well," she said slyly... "Not all people. There are a few people I don't like..." Everyone laughed as she winked and looked around the room.
"Uhoh! Time to change subjects!," announced my husband with a laugh. Nana gave him a little squeeze and laughed too.
The evening ended with some snacks, and people started walking around the room. Nana worked the entire crowd, giving hugs, shaking hands and thanking everyone for coming. It was truly a special nite. Thanks again, Compass.
